I’m quite sad right now. I’m about to poke, yet again another sour spot.
My topic today says;
LADIES LET’S BE WARY!!!
Ladies in their thirties and above. I’m here again as a voice of caution. It appears things are getting worse. If that’s even possible, considering the fact it has always been a jungle out there. The hawks are hovering; searching for an easy prey. I heard of a pathetic story about a lady who was swindled of her life savings by a man who promised her marriage and travel papers.
I am not livid or even pissed which should ‘ve been a better feeling anyway. I’m simply disgusted. Hear me out here. No one is above mistakes. I understand the feeling of uncertainty too well. I understand the pressure from all around us. I understand how it feels, to be told by one “snake oil salesman” exactly what one wants to hear. The exhilarating relief! The rekindled hope and all….
What really breaks my heart is that such happens regularly to regular intelligent ladies whose only crime were letting their guard down. Daring to hope the affection was real, only to fall into the hands of desperate con-men with sharp spades for digging.
It’s easy to see through this type of men, their stench is easily perceived. But they still catch as many prey as they target mostly because of the societal and peer pressure mounted on us ladies. The scammer, varnishes into thin air without a thought of how the trusting lady would feel.
My ladies, it’s a tough world out there. You were offered something you needed so much, so you threw caution to the winds! Oh crap! Enough of that silly excuse already. Don’t be silly…
Another lady I read about the other day on some page on social media, can’t quite place which, said he told her he works with a bank. She swallowed that. A man who didn’t even have an apartment. Moved in with her, was fed by her. He still managed to defraud her of her little savings, was abusive on top all that! How does one “refuse” to think? He was a banker, yet couldn’t afford a rented apartment? Or cater for his needs? A future mother swallowed that white lie, line, hook and sinker?
There was also another incident I came across on Facebook. This particular lady was on the brink of committing suicide because she lent money to her boyfriend, almost a million bucks. This bloody twerp blocked her on all social networks as soon as he landed overseas. Unbelievable!
If this craze to settle down intent is to connect to another; a companion; start a family and do all necessary to make one’s marriage work. It actually sounds like a good cause to me. But the chilling truth that sends nerve quivering chill down my spine, is knowing that majority don’t give a damn about the frigging outcome. Just to tie the “knot” is what some only now sort after. Even if it all ends in a year or two. It doesn’t freaking matter.
Little wonder our societies are in shambles. We all see what mostly comes out of broken homes.
My ladies, until we focus on what’s best for us. For our unborn children and forget or rather ignore the society and its pressure. These predators won’t stop. The scamming won’t stop. The downgrading and “diggings” won’t stop. Funny, ladies used to be the ones with the shovel back in the days. How things changed…
Being “mrs” isn’t worth anyone all these headaches; heartaches and misery some are passing through on a daily basis.
We ‘re all mature and know what good or not for us. Let’s not allow pressure make us ignore red flags or warnings in our heads. Let’s be at alert and stay reasonable. Know whom you are with very well, so as to know what works best for you.
That’s all I have to say for now. Do have a lovely day, you all!